Attachment therapy for children who have experienced family trauma

I am frequently asked by other professionals about what I do and what to do when referred a child who has experienced family trauma. What follows is a brief description of my work with these children. It is written with professionals in mind and assumes a basic knowledge of Attachment Theory and psychological approaches to treatment.

Children who have experienced gross deficiencies in care during their early formative years (preschool) are increasingly spoken about as having suffered from complex developmental trauma. Gross deficiencies in care incorporate physical, emotional and/or sexual abuse of the child and/or a persistent failure or inability of the child’s main caregiver or caregivers to consistently offer physical and emotional comfort in times of distress, such that the child is frequently left in a state of prolonged and severe physical and emotional distress. The developmental aspect incorporates the impact complex trauma has on developmental processes and outcomes for the child, which is increasingly being tied to impacts on the developing brain. However, the very nature of the aetiology of complex developmental trauma allocates a central role to the child’s primary attachment relationships and their impact on attachment security.

Children who have experienced complex developmental trauma frequently exhibit insecurity. Many are diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). Children diagnosed with RAD typically exhibit gross disturbances in social and emotional relatedness and behaviour. These disturbances are considered to stem from maladaptive beliefs about self, other and the world (attachment representations), hyperarousal (and associated arousal dysregulation), and a pervasive and enduring preoccupation with access to core needs provision (including the need to feel safe, accepted and to be physically nourished). 

Psychological interventions for complex developmental trauma, and its common associate Reactive Attachment Disorder, are often grouped under the general heading Attachment Therapies. As the name suggests, Attachment Therapies typically seek to repair the traumatised child’s attachment relationships and/or promote attachment security. The provision of reparative attachment experiences in therapy has a central role. With references often being made to such terms as transference and counter-transference, Attachment Therapies are often placed in the psychoanalytic tradition.                                                                                    

My own approach to Attachment Therapy focuses on promoting adaptive beliefs about self, other and the world (secure attachment representations), lower and improved regulation of arousal, and reduced preoccupation with access to basic needs. Therapy is experiential, just as early attachment relationships are formed through experiences. Children referred to me are offered sustained, consistent and intense experiences of structure, direction, guidance, mastery, deep understanding of their inner world, emotional connectedness and access to needs provision. This is achieved through therapeutic activities (e.g. Theraplay) and a stream of interpretations of the child’s thoughts, feelings, perspectives and intentions (i.e. verbalising understanding – a.k.a. validation).

As to what psychotherapy school or tradition my approach to Attachment Therapy sits in, it is possible to argue one way or another. There is no doubt that I am managing transference and counter-transference to achieve desired therapeutic outcomes for traumatised, attachment disordered children on a daily basis. However, it is also my practice to explore and name the child’s maladaptive beliefs about self, other and the world and take the child on a journey whereby they experience themselves, others and the world in a different, more helpful way. In doing so, my intent is to reorganise and restructure attachment representations and expose the traumatised, attachment disordered child in a systematic and sustained manner to the very source of their trauma: the dependency relationship. Desired outcomes include cognitive change and lowered arousal through habituation to the trauma stimulus; although arousal management techniques are also an important component of intervention. Hence, my therapeutic approach sits easily in the cognitive-behavioural tradition.

In addition, successful outcomes for traumatised, attachment disordered children rest in no small way on the promotion of a supportive care environment outside of the therapy setting. Engagement with the child’s caregivers in the home and educational contexts is an important aspect of the intervention process. Successful caregiver psychoeducation rests on the therapists ability to achieve understanding and acceptance of required approaches to the care and management of the traumatised, attachment disordered child. Wholesale changes in care and management approach are rarely accepted and implemented in a consistent and sustained manner; if at all. Even if they were implemented, the potential effectiveness of wholesale changes are likely to be quickly dismissed as traumatised, attachment disordered children are highly reactive to changes in caregiving practices. More subtle changes to care and management practices are more likely to be accepted, by the child and his or her caregivers alike. My own practice is to identify those aspects of common caregiving that facilitate the child’s experience of their caregiver as being accessible, understanding and emotionally-connected; such as is the infant’s experience when he or she is forming their first (secure) attachment relationships. As caregivers can rightfully assert “I do that anyway” they feel validated for the positive contribution they are making to the remediation of the child’s trauma and attachment difficulties and, having been made aware of what caregiving practices help, might be expected to do them more often.

For the reader who requires additional information about Attachment Theory and Attachment Disorder, please refer to my book:

Pearce, C. (2009). A Short Introduction to Attachment and Attachment Disorder.  London: Jessica Kingsley

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About colbypearce

I am a Clinical Psychologist and author who assists children and familes overcome adversity and experience strong and secure attachment relationships.
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4 Responses to Attachment therapy for children who have experienced family trauma

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  3. Betty says:

    How or what possible things can you as a parent do if you yourself were traumatised as a child and re traumatised again as an adult and your 4 year old who did have a good attachment with you has learned to be mistrustful ? I believe she learned because firstly she was exposed to me not being available because I was so anxious I had to take antipsychotic medication to stop my panic which exhausted me and my husbands parents would take her out of the room repeatedly when she wanted to see me and she would cry and say no. Then as the panic quiet ended down over time I became chronically depressed where I couldn’t eat or get out of bed and because I was so worried about the effect I had on her after doing the circle of security and through the looking glass programs through her daycare I had to shove my feelings down and also over time became very agitated and angry. I am now taking Valium every day and have been for over a year which im petrified of being on and was assured it was ok, I believe this medicine may exacerbate the rage I have inside which to my disgust I feel my daughter has been at the hand of, once when she was not doing what I asked when I repeatedly asked her (I believe she was frightened and acting out/being silly to mask the fear) I got her arm and pulled her part way across the floor and another time when she was jumping on my back I turned round and yelled loudly at her. I believe it’s my lack of ability to forgive my behavior that perpetuates it. I love her more than life itself but I’ve become an impatient distracted medicated extremely frustrated and very very sad ( because the last thing on earth I would want is my child to feel the types of things i felt) mother. I am now finally receiving schema therapy, I am in a small country town with minimal resources I am very lucky they offer this not so common therapy but I need help to repair and maintain trust in my relationship with my daughter, I also get triggered now when she blows raspberries at me when I ask her to do something I feel the disappointment and pain that I let her down what can I do if I’m still not cured myself ??? Anything at all ?? Please help

    • colbypearce says:

      Hello Betty. Sorry for taking so long to reply – I do not use this site often. Wishing you and your child all the best in your endeavours and hoping you have found excellent support. Best wishes.

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